When attention is someone's top need, you might really like it when someone calls just to say they were thinking about you or want to spend time with you.

You likely feel loved by individual, undivided listening and when someone makes a special effort to get to know you and your needs. You might also feel loved when someone attends your event, does the things that you like to do or "enters your world."

You may like to hear words like, "Tell me about your day," or, "How did your test go?" and, "What would you like to do this weekend?"

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